“As I Knew Him: My Dad, Rod Serling” goes beyond what some would view as the ‘expected’ biography. I don’t cry reading biographies or memoirs. I don’t. And, I did.
Anne
Serling’s account of her father and the love and joy their family shared
transports the reader into the very heart of the family dynamics. Through
Anne’s mastery of the written word, we are invited to partake in the memories
as if they are current events unfolding before us. All I can say is be prepared
to laugh, smile, and go through a box or two of tissues. “As I Knew Him” is
writing at its finest.
Anne
holds a degree in Elementary Education with a minor in English. She’s been a
substitute teacher, worked with children with special needs, and was a
preschool teacher at Cornell University’s Early Childhood Program and
Cooperative Nursery School. Her poetry has appeared in publications such as The
Cornell Daily Sun and Visions. Previously, she adapted two of her father’s
teleplays to short stories which were included in the anthology “The Twilight
Zone.” Anne and her husband currently live in upstate New York.
“As
I Knew Him” has been described as a “lyrical tribute” to Rod Serling’s legacy.
That may be a fair assertion. However, it is Anne’s ability to bring to life
her father’s empathy, kindness, and sense of social justice through her words
that separates this book from the pack. Shared personal correspondence and
photographs help to paint the picture of the man, father, and confidant Anne
knew. She takes us from her father’s early days, his military service during
WWII, the meeting with the woman who would become his wife, and allows us to
sit on her shoulder as the daughter plays with her father in the yard. We
‘hear’ Rod’s stance on censorship and his deep rooted love of animals. Most of
all, this is a book of family and how our futures are molded by the values
instilled within us by those who love and guide us. Buy this book. You won’t
regret it.
Q)
I’m certain that writing a book about your father was suggested numerous times
over the years. What made you decide that now was the right time?
A)
Writing the book was actually never suggested. It was just something I needed
to do. Initially I began another book about ten years after my dad died--IN HIS
ABSENCE. I was unable to finish it though as I was still so much, even then, in
the throes of grief and unable to navigate my way through that minefield. After
several years I heard things that had been written and said that described my
father in a way that could not have been more removed from the person I knew
and it made me angry. I decided it was time to set the record straight. And so
I wrote this book as a tribute to my father.
Q)
You are an extremely talented writer. Why haven’t we seen a book (regardless of
genre) from you before this? I noticed on your web site that you have started a
novel. What genre will it be?
A)
Thank you so much!
Poetry
was, initially, where I was comfortable. Writing a book seemed like such a
daunting task.
When
I began AS I KNEW HIM, I wondered, not only emotionally, but also
realistically, how I would reach the end. As I went on, I found the process
became easier and although there were certainly more than a handful of
frustrating days and blank pages, there were also moments when I reached the
end of chapters and felt a sense of completion.
What
I am writing now is a novel called AFTERSHOCKS. It is about the dissolution of
a family and the fractured interpersonal relationships involved.
Q)
No doubt this has been asked, but what do you believe was the greatest gift
both of your parents gave you?
A)
At an early age I learned of the insidious nature of prejudice and how my dad
felt it was our world's "greatest evil."
Both
my parents shielded my sister and me from "the Hollywood scene." And
I am grateful for that. Although I think that environment would be even tougher
to grow up in now. Not to say it wouldn't, at times, be exciting.
From
my father I learned that unconditional love is the greatest gift a parent can
give their children. Also the ability to laugh at one's self.
Q)
Several renowned celebrities came out in public support of “As I Knew Him.”
Their support is a
tribute to both you and your father. How did it feel knowing
they were willing to state their lasting impressions of your father after all
this time?
A)
I am grateful and humbled beyond words that these kind people took the time out
of their busy worlds to offer me these quotes.
My
dad was once quoted as saying he felt his writing was "momentarily
adequate" and that it wouldn't "stand the test of time."
These endorsements, after all of these decades, touched me deeply, as
they would have him.
Q)
The Fifth Dimension is a grade school program designed to enhance the life
skills of children entering middle school. It utilizes Twilight Zone episodes
to focus on such issues as prejudice and mob mentality. How involved were you
with creating this marvelous program?
A)
I was not involved in creating this program. Credit goes entirely to the superb
teachers that implemented it, organized it and made it successful through their
creativity and belief in the idea. It is focused on enhancing the life skills of
elementary students as they prepare to enter the tumultuous years of middle
school with its peer pressure and bullying.
And
these students really "get" these moral messages. When asked by one
teacher, after viewing the episode "The Monsters Are Due on Maple Street,”
"Who are the monsters?" The entire class stood up.
I
believe my father would have considered this program his greatest accolade.
Q)
Any parting thoughts for your readers?
A)
I hope I have been successful in presenting the human side of my father and
that readers come to know "another dimension" of the man beyond
his public persona and the mistaken portrayal by some as a morose, depressed
angry man.
Additionally,
I hope that I have helped others by opening up about getting through my grief.
Grieving the loss of someone is so difficult. I hope my sharing lets
others realize that they are not alone and that there is no "right"
way to get through it. No "appropriate" measure of time. It's tough
and it's messy and can take years before you feel "right" or
"normal" again and that is ok.
DA Kentner is an
award-winning author www.kevad.net
What a fabulous interview. I've just added this to my to read list.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was younger, I gobbled up everything I could find about The Twilight Zone. From watching reruns to books.It was through this I was introduced to some of my favorite authors and there are some of those episodes and stories that still live in my head.
Anne, I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm grateful you've decided to share this part of him with us.
Hello, Saranna, and thank you so much for leaving a comment.
ReplyDeleteI too was a huge Twilight Zone fan. I couldn't get enough of it. Needless to say, I am extremely honored to have had the opportunity to interview Ms. Serling. She's an extremely nice and generous lady.
Hi, David, I had to read this interview. The Twilight Zone scared me when I was a kid. How nice to know the other/real side of him. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteHello, Vicki!
ReplyDeleteI really appreciate you stopping by.
Comment from Cindy Bartolotta: I tried to leave a post on the blog, but Blogger never lets me. What a great interview. Anne's book will give us an insight to the real Rod Serling. I loved watching The Twilight Zone and have always been amazed at the depth of the stories that were only half an hour long. I have some original paperbacks from the show that were read over and over. Thanks David.
ReplyDeleteHi David, thank you for this wonderful interview. I loved Anne's book. So many people only know the man in the dark suit on tv but this memoir shows us the family man, the father, the war veteran and the author. Besides just memoir, this book invites us into the human process - that of an author trying to reconcile his craft with his ethics and the demands of business as well as society; and that of a child grieving the loss of her father
ReplyDeleteHello Ms. Parsons,
ReplyDeleteThank you! I'm very grateful you took the time to visit and leave a comment. I absolutely agree that Anne's book is so much more than what readers will expect.